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Anxiety is a pervasive mental health concern affecting millions of people around the world. From everyday stress, muscle tension, fixation on what could go wrong, and falling into perfectionism, anxiety can significantly impact daily living and your well-being overall. As a professional psychologist, I've witnessed firsthand the exhausting effect of anxiety on peoples’ lives. I've also seen the transformative power of effective coping skills, particularly those grounded in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). This article looks at one such skill, called Ride the Wave.
For bisexual people of Asian descent, navigating this intersection can get complicated quickly. In this article, my aim is to celebrate and uplift the people embracing their bisexual Asian identity. We’ll look at the specific challenges that come up when navigating being bisexual and Asian, celebrate the richness of these two communities, and uplift the voices of the people creating a life and a community as bisexual Asian Americans.
Finding queer friendships can be both exhilarating and challenging in a city the size of New York. Queer friendship plays a critical role in creating acceptance and belonging. For many LGBTQ+ people, forming queer community with friends who have similar experiences or fresh perspectives can provide a space for validation and self-expression. As a therapist specializing in LGBTQ+ issues, I understand the importance of building supportive connections, especially for queer adults building a life in NYC.
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“Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction vs Escitalopram for the Treatment of Adults With Anxiety Disorders: A Randomized Clinical Trial”
Caring for plants reduces anxiety and lowers stress. Did you know it can also teach vital lessons about how to care for yourself? Let’s explore how gardening teaches self-care, and how that can reduce your anxiety.
Here’s how my first attempts at being more mindful crashed and burned. We’ll talk about how to fail at mindfulness, and how (and why!) to try again.
Articles About Sexual Health
Forming queer community is often spoken about as the cure for loneliness for LGBTQ+ people. But how do you go about building it? This article explores different strategies for how we can connect with our queer family. Let’s take a close look at research published in the Journal of Lesbian Studies that explores the strategies one group of Black lesbians use for constructing LGBTQ+ community.
Today we’ll explore one specific tool designed to help you deepen your understanding of your sexual orientation and identity. Originally developed by groundbreaking researcher and founder of the American Institute of Bisexuality, Dr. Fred “Fritz” Klein, this tool is designed to give you a deeper look at various parts of your sexual orientation. The grid teases apart some of the overlapping threads of sexual identity to help you look more closely at the different components that make up this part of you. My hope is that this tool gives you a place to start thinking about your own sexual orientation with nuance and joy!
Welcome to a detailed resource on chest binding, tailored specifically for LGBTQ+ adults. As a therapist specializing in queer-affirmative therapy, I understand the importance of feeling comfortable in your body. Chest binding can be a useful tool for people experiencing discomfort related to their torso area. It’s important to approach this safely. In this article, we'll explore some of the ins and outs of chest binding, from picking the right product to maintaining physical and mental well-being while you use it.
Apps like Grindr are designed so that queer people, predominantly gay cisgendered men, can find each other through their phones. It has an opportunity with its audience to provide information that may be helpful to them. In 2017, that’s what Jack Harrison-Quintana was trying to do when he launched Grindr’s Sexual Health Resource Center.
For many pansexual people, forming queer community can start with exploring how to define your sexual orientation, connecting with people in similar positions, and choosing how and with whom to share all of this. This article will take a look at one research study into the different ways pansexual people form queer community.
Quality healthcare is hard to find for people who are bisexual. It’s difficult to navigate the barriers alone. This blog will explore one researcher’s findings to shed some light on finding therapy for bisexual people, and what stands in the way of that.
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Anxiety is a pervasive mental health concern affecting millions of people around the world. From everyday stress, muscle tension, fixation on what could go wrong, and falling into perfectionism, anxiety can significantly impact daily living and your well-being overall. As a professional psychologist, I've witnessed firsthand the exhausting effect of anxiety on peoples’ lives. I've also seen the transformative power of effective coping skills, particularly those grounded in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). This article looks at one such skill, called Ride the Wave.
For bisexual people of Asian descent, navigating this intersection can get complicated quickly. In this article, my aim is to celebrate and uplift the people embracing their bisexual Asian identity. We’ll look at the specific challenges that come up when navigating being bisexual and Asian, celebrate the richness of these two communities, and uplift the voices of the people creating a life and a community as bisexual Asian Americans.
Finding queer friendships can be both exhilarating and challenging in a city the size of New York. Queer friendship plays a critical role in creating acceptance and belonging. For many LGBTQ+ people, forming queer community with friends who have similar experiences or fresh perspectives can provide a space for validation and self-expression. As a therapist specializing in LGBTQ+ issues, I understand the importance of building supportive connections, especially for queer adults building a life in NYC.
Finding your own path in the landscape of mental health can be hard for people all across the LGBTQ+ spectrum. For bisexuals in particular, the trip through discovery and acceptance and into better mental wellbeing is marked by unique struggles. In this article, let’s explore how Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) can be applied to our experiences as bisexual people. We’ll explore how the skills from the four key modules of DBT can be adapted to work for bisexual people specifically. Though DBT was not designed with us in mind, it can still provide valuable tools for exploring our identity and for accepting and challenging the specific stigma and discrimination we face as queer people.
Welcome to an exploration of radical acceptance, a fundamental skill in DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Radical acceptance means acknowledging reality as it is without making any judgments about it or resisting it. In this article, we will dive into the concept of radical acceptance from a DBT lens, and then explore its relevance and application for LGBTQ+ adults. It comes from the world of Distress Tolerance, a toolbox for withstanding pressure and intense emotions as well as for coming to terms with unchangeable realities. Radical acceptance is most useful for making peace with the parts of our lives we cannot change and the problems that have no solution. As a psychologist specializing in queer mental health, I understand how a distress tolerance skill like radical acceptance can help LGBTQ+ people face the unique challenges and stressors in their lives.
What are the top five misconceptions about bisexual people? Bisexuality is a significant and common part of human sexuality, although it is often misunderstood and misrepresented. Within the LGBTQ+ community and beyond, many myths and misconceptions persist. The pervasiveness of these misunderstandings casts a shadow on the experiences of bisexual individuals, and their self-esteem can take a hit. As a psychologist specializing in queer issues, it's critical to me to address these myths head on, and provide clarity for people exploring their sexual identities. By debunking these myths about bisexuality, we can deepen our understanding, acceptance, and support for bisexual people everywhere.
In the journey of acceptance and self-discovery, finding a sense of belonging is critical for LGBTQ+ individuals. Traditional family structures may not always provide the support and understanding we all deserve. Many of us within the queer community turn to what is known as the chosen family to cultivate those bonds. This article dives into the profound significance of creating a chosen family in forming queer community. Let’s explore how these relationships contribute to the mental health and well-being of LGBTQ+ people.
Within the tapestry of the queer community, bisexual people find themselves navigating a unique set of snarls. Among these challenges, one of the most ensnaring is bisexual erasure: the process whereby the B in LGBTQ+ gets hidden, dismissed, or denied. This experience diminishes the validity and the visibility of bisexuality within the queer community itself and society at large. In this article, we will pick apart the threads of bisexual erasure, exploring the causes, the impact, and most importantly, the power of bisexual stories in combating that erasure.
Exploring the history of self-care, from its roots in the political and social justice scene to the ways it is practiced currently, gives us new ideas for how to prioritize self-care as a practice. How can you take good care of yourself? How can you believe that you are worthy of quality self-care? Knowing that good self-care can never make up for systemic oppression, how can we find small ways to replenish ourselves? Read on for a list of free self-care basket ideas, to help LGBTQ+ people find what works for us.
March is Bisexual+ Health Awareness Month. That makes it a great time to highlight bisexual stories and talk about a 2023 study conducted at the University of Illinois at Chicago. Let’s dive into what participants shared about their experiences as bisexual women of color: the struggles they face and the strengths they rely on to make it through.
Dialectical behavior therapy is an evidence-based treatment with a strong body of research to support it. Will it work for you personally? Read on to discover a list of four pros and cons of DBT therapy, to help you decide for yourself if it would be effective for you to try.
Forming queer community is often spoken about as the cure for loneliness for LGBTQ+ people. But how do you go about building it? This article explores different strategies for how we can connect with our queer family. Let’s take a close look at research published in the Journal of Lesbian Studies that explores the strategies one group of Black lesbians use for constructing LGBTQ+ community.
What is the role of art in challenging and undoing systemic oppression? And what does that have to do with self-care? Sundus Abdul Hadi is an artist, curator, and writer of Iraqi origin, working to explore these questions.
Today we’ll explore one specific tool designed to help you deepen your understanding of your sexual orientation and identity. Originally developed by groundbreaking researcher and founder of the American Institute of Bisexuality, Dr. Fred “Fritz” Klein, this tool is designed to give you a deeper look at various parts of your sexual orientation. The grid teases apart some of the overlapping threads of sexual identity to help you look more closely at the different components that make up this part of you. My hope is that this tool gives you a place to start thinking about your own sexual orientation with nuance and joy!
Welcome to a detailed resource on chest binding, tailored specifically for LGBTQ+ adults. As a therapist specializing in queer-affirmative therapy, I understand the importance of feeling comfortable in your body. Chest binding can be a useful tool for people experiencing discomfort related to their torso area. It’s important to approach this safely. In this article, we'll explore some of the ins and outs of chest binding, from picking the right product to maintaining physical and mental well-being while you use it.
The importance of building a strong and supportive queer community cannot be overstated. For us in the LGBTQ+ community, finding a sense of belonging and connection is crucial for navigating the complexities of identity and relationships. However, building such a community can come with its own set of challenges, from overcoming internalized shame to traveling huge swaths of land. In this article, we'll explore five actionable steps that can help you in forming queer community, one that is grounded in authenticity, inclusivity, and mutual care.
The B in LGBTQ+: how many people claim it? Let’s explore how many people identify as bisexual, where those numbers come from, and what those numbers miss. We’ll also take a deep dive into what it means to come out as bisexual, according to new research out of the Netherlands.
Apps like Grindr are designed so that queer people, predominantly gay cisgendered men, can find each other through their phones. It has an opportunity with its audience to provide information that may be helpful to them. In 2017, that’s what Jack Harrison-Quintana was trying to do when he launched Grindr’s Sexual Health Resource Center.
Attentional control is one of the tools in your toolbox that helps you zoom the focus back out, such that you can be aware of what else is happening in the world, beyond the threat. We’re not ignoring the stern look or the sense of doom here- we stay aware of the threat’s existence. We just zoom out the lens a little bit so that we notice what else is happening at the same time.
“Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction vs Escitalopram for the Treatment of Adults With Anxiety Disorders: A Randomized Clinical Trial”
For many pansexual people, forming queer community can start with exploring how to define your sexual orientation, connecting with people in similar positions, and choosing how and with whom to share all of this. This article will take a look at one research study into the different ways pansexual people form queer community.
Quality healthcare is hard to find for people who are bisexual. It’s difficult to navigate the barriers alone. This blog will explore one researcher’s findings to shed some light on finding therapy for bisexual people, and what stands in the way of that.
Caring for plants reduces anxiety and lowers stress. Did you know it can also teach vital lessons about how to care for yourself? Let’s explore how gardening teaches self-care, and how that can reduce your anxiety.
Here’s how my first attempts at being more mindful crashed and burned. We’ll talk about how to fail at mindfulness, and how (and why!) to try again.
Let’s celebrate the strong suits of the bisexual community by taking a look at three specific qualities many bisexual people share. Highlighting bisexual people’s strengths is part of the work we can all do to help reduce the stigma that bisexual people face.
With so much overlap between the bisexual and pansexual identities, how do you decide which label is right for you? And what’s the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality? Read on to find out how one bisexual psychologist found clarity between the two.
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Attentional control is one of the tools in your toolbox that helps you zoom the focus back out, such that you can be aware of what else is happening in the world, beyond the threat. We’re not ignoring the stern look or the sense of doom here- we stay aware of the threat’s existence. We just zoom out the lens a little bit so that we notice what else is happening at the same time.